What does “hold someone back” mean?

Walking Away From Fear And Finding Courage

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B1 English listening practice · English · Picked for people who know some

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to hold (someone) back
phrasal verb · English
“to stop someone from progressing or doing something”

In this student’s talk on facing fear, the message turns on a phrasal verb: «those make us feel anxious and holding us back from doing great things». To hold someone back is to stop them from moving forward or reaching their potential, whether it’s fear, doubt, or other people doing the holding.

Like many English phrasal verbs, the two words together mean more than their parts: hold (“grip”) plus back (“behind”) gives “restrain, prevent from advancing.” Watch the patterns: “don’t hold back” (“give it everything”), “hold yourself back,” “what’s holding you back?” It’s everyday English for whatever keeps you stuck.

How common are the words?

How common are the words in this B1 English listening practice video?

94.5%
of words are in the top 2,000 most common English words
Most of the words in this video are common English words.

How common in written English

90.4%
Top 1,000
94.5%
Top 2,000
99%
Top 5,000

How common in spoken English

94.4%
Top 1,000
97.3%
Top 2,000
100%
Top 5,000

Harder words in this video

These words are harder than B1. Here is what they mean.

unpleasant
1×
Not in top 5,000
not enjoyable; disagreeable
mindset
1×
Not in top 5,000
mental attitude or outlook
tolerance
1×
Not in top 5,000
acceptance of different views
anxious
1×
Not in top 5,000People say this a lot
feeling worried or uneasy
walk away from our fears
1×
face fears instead of avoiding them

Source: wordfreq 3.1.1 (general) · SUBTLEX-US 2012 (spoken). These numbers are close, not perfect.

★Where you hear this
  • ▸English motivational talks and TED-style speeches on fear and confidence.
  • ▸In job interviews and coaching: “what’s holding you back?”
  • ▸English phrasal-verb lessons grouping hold on, hold up, hold back.
  • ▸Everyday pep talks: “don’t hold back.”

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