What does “kiss something goodbye” mean in English?

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kiss (something) goodbye
English idiom for accepting a loss
to accept you won’t get or keep something — no real kissing involved

In this courtroom cross-examination, the judge warns a witness: “If I hear you again... I’m gonna kiss you goodbye.” She means she will dismiss the witness from the stand. Kiss something goodbye normally means to accept that you have lost something, or that you will never get it. If you lend a friend money and they never pay you back, you can kiss that money goodbye.

The judge’s version is a small twist: instead of kissing an object goodbye, she threatens to “kiss” the person goodbye, meaning “you’ll be gone from here.” The standard use stays with things you lose: “Kiss your deposit goodbye if you cancel now,” or “If France lose this game, they can kiss the cup goodbye.” It’s informal, a little dramatic, and always about something that’s now out of reach.

How common are the words?

How common are the words in this B2 English listening practice video?

92.6%
of words are in the top 2,000 most common English words
Most of the words in this video are common English words.

How common in written English

89.4%
Top 1,000
92.6%
Top 2,000
98.6%
Top 5,000

How common in spoken English

91.5%
Top 1,000
96.9%
Top 2,000
100%
Top 5,000

Harder words in this video

These words are harder than B2. Here is what they mean.

seizures
3×
Not in top 5,000
episodes of abnormal brain activity
seizure
2×
Not in top 5,000
single episode of seizure
socialization
2×
Not in top 5,000
interacting with others

Source: wordfreq 3.1.1 (general) · SUBTLEX-US 2012 (spoken). These numbers are close, not perfect.

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