What does 'ikramlaşma' mean in Turkish culture?

Komşuyla köfte ve ikramlaşma sohbeti

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A2 Turkish listening practice · Standard Turkish · Picked for people who know a little

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ikramlaşma
noun · reciprocal action
the Turkish ritual of mutual treating: when neighbors share food back and forth, plate-to-plate, never empty

İkramlaşma is Turkish for mutual hosting. The Turkish verb ikram etmek means to offer or to treat (food, drink, hospitality). The reciprocal suffix -laş- turns it into a back-and-forth: ikramlaşma is the social ritual where one neighbor sends a plate of köfte over, the other returns it later with börek on top. The plate never goes back empty.

This clip stages ikramlaşma in 20 seconds. One sister hands a small plate over: « O komşunun, ama onlar bizle paylaşmadı » (it’s the neighbor’s, but they didn’t share with us). The other sister: « Olsun ablacım, biz onlarla paylaşalım » (let it be, sis, we’ll share with them). Then: « Köfte yaptım da size de getirdim » (I made köfte and brought you some).

How common are the words?

How common are the words in this A2 Turkish listening practice video?

82%
of words are in the top 2,000 most common Turkish words
Most of the words in this video are common Turkish words.

How common in written Turkish

74%
Top 1,000
82%
Top 2,000
96%
Top 5,000

How common in spoken Turkish

92.9%
Top 1,000
100%
Top 2,000
100%
Top 5,000
👄 Words for talking
This video uses words people often say in Turkish.

Harder words in this video

These words are harder than A2. Here is what they mean.

ablacığım
2×
Not in top 5,000
little sister (affectionate)
beyim
1×
Not in top 5,000
Mr. / Sir
paylaşırız
1×
Not in top 5,000
we share
paylaşmadı
1×
Not in top 5,000
did not share
eyvallah
1×
Not in top 5,000
thanks (slang)
allah razı olsun
1×
thanks to God (religious idiom for gratitude)

Source: wordfreq 3.1.1 (general) · OpenSubtitles 2018 (HermitDave) (spoken). These numbers are close, not perfect.

★Where you hear this
  • ▸In Turkish drama and sitcom plots on TRT 1, ATV, and Show TV where neighbors trade trays of börek and köfte
  • ▸In Turkish religious and cultural programming on Diyanet TV during Ramadan, where iftar ikramlaşma among neighbors is the season’s social glue
  • ▸In Turkish village and apartment-block daily life across Anatolia, where the same plate makes five trips a week between komşular (neighbors)
  • ▸In Turkish lifestyle coverage on Hürriyet Kelebek and Milliyet when writers profile traditional hospitality

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