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What does “مرات أبويا” mean in Egyptian Arabic?

Egyptian Arabic has no single, commonly used word for “stepmother.” Instead, people say مرات أبويا (marat abuya), literally “my father’s wife.” In the clip, a child keeps asking grown women أنتِ مراه أبويا؟, “are you my father’s wife?”, until one answers أيوه، أنا مراه أبوكِ, “yes, I am your father’s wife” — the phrase doing double duty as both a literal description and the family label.

Modern Standard Arabic uses the same circumlocution, زوجة الأب (zawjat al-ab), “wife of the father” — Arabic in general skips a dedicated word for this relationship the way English has “stepmother.” The possessive shifts with who’s speaking: مرات أبويا (“my father’s wife”), مرات أبوكِ (“your father’s wife,” to a girl), مرات أبوها (“her father’s wife”). In the clip, that shifting possessive is the joke: at least two women answer to some version of the phrase before the child finds the right one.